Snackers, you know what day it is! Here we are and I have one question for you. Are you making it through 2025 thus far? Lord knows it has been a doozy, hang in there y'all. We got this shit.
So, this week is a bit more vulnerable. I know right?! I am leaving the sex behind for this one. I have been told by a few men in the last year or so, that I am giving "serious" or "the real deal". At the age of 32, I believe there are a few reasons that is the case. This is not only for my ladies, but men, this one is for you as well. Let's dive in shall we...
A single gal, waiting for her knight and shining armor. Yes, that is me. The lover girl who appreciates a good comedy or romance movie, and deep chats about our interests. That is me. A high sex drive, with no good sense. That is me. Funny, lovable, and positive. That is also me. You get the picture! Recently, I have had men cross my path and immediately turn the other way. I guess that has been God's way of protecting me from what is not meant for me. One said, "They would break my heart, and I didn't deserve that". Another said, "I am still outside, and I know you are not". The list goes on, but now you have a couple examples to follow along.
Though I am grateful to encounter men who have enough discernment to leave me alone, sometimes it is defeating. Why? Because a girl wants love too, damn it! However, did you notice I said, "I was waiting for my knight and shining armor"? Keyword, waiting. Somebody's son is out there for me, and God will make sure this QUEEN meets her KING in divine timing. A man I was deeply in love with at one point, years ago, told me "Dating me would be too close to marriage". I never forgot that. Though it hurt at the time, because we had developed such a closeness, that was the best thing a man could have ever told me.
That was also in my mid-twenties, to give reference. I guess I have always been the girl that is too close to "the real deal". Your girl loves hard and will pour into you. What can I say...That statement made me realize my worth and changed my mindset as a young woman. I respected him saying that, though it took years to understand. Never settle for anything less than what you desire. Anyone that has ever been in a relationship with me or dated me at some point, knows I do not stand for the bullshit and games. I am glad that is an unspoken energy I currently exude. My aura will attract a real one, one of these days. Preparation is only a lonely game if you do not have faith in the process. The universe is not blocking me from such experiences for nothing.
I speak what I desire and continue to manifest a long-term relationship that will take my very breath away in the best ways. I pray over my future husband. I pray that a genuine and full love, much like the love I have given over the years finds me. Marriage may not be on the docket for some of you out there, but it surely is on the list for me. Once you realize such a union, will not be ordered by you, there is peace in being alone until it is the right time. Who knows if my next will be my last. The goal is not to get married tomorrow, but I am preparing myself. Take head to those that do not align with what you said you would not settle for. Stand on your boundaries to wean out those who are not ready for commitment or being intentional.
To my future KING, I appreciate you. You are seen. Though I have yet to lay eyes on you, as far as I know. May the love you give, be the greatest gift. May our hearts intertwine like two souls destined to find one another after all that has been endured before each other. You are already loved, and my forever goal is to be a safe space. I will uplift you and carry you through the best and worst days. When I meet you, an unspoken language will exist that we have attempted to translate to others. A divine sense of knowing will be amongst us as a unit. I cannot wait to meet you, though I will happily wait to meet you.
-From your future QUEEN
This is not only for my single ladies and gents, if you are in a relationship and desire a union, stand on that. Do not force or settle for the things that are not in alignment with your full purpose.
Thank you for reading, and I love you all!
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